Love or lust? Love or lust? Love? Or, simply lust? Is it a complex series of emotions? Or, are you just getting hard?
It can’t be both, you fucking idiot.
This isn’t a quandry of chicken or egg. Distilled down, it is simpler than that. Which happens first? Heart flutter, or localized swelling?
You better hope it is the latter. Trust me on this one, bub. Love is much more virulent and hurtful than lust and with lust there is always the chance you’ll get what you want. Love on the other hand just takes and takes and takes like the most sinister vampire you’ve ever heard of.
There is one benefit: Once you are sucked dry you can only persue lust. So, maybe just get the love over with and then focus on the lust.